I think “Here’s the thing” will become a rant section because that’s exactly what is about to happen. It is 2014 and I am so sick and tired of people putting their homophobic energy out into the atmosphere! I stumbled upon a homophobic post (which you can find here … because I have zero fucks to give) and it just disgusts me and let me just tell you why…
I respect peoples religious beliefs they may not be my own but still I respect theirs. But, when it comes to homophobia I just have a zero tolerance for the bullshit. In general, people pick and choose what they want to be straight and narrow about and SOME religious folks pick and choose of all the equally weighed sins being gay or ACTING on your homosexual feelings is the greatest sin of all, it is an abomination and a host of other negative feelings. All sins are EQUAL and you should not harshly judge anyone because they sin differently than you. And ok, we can all agree that murdering someone is wrong, but when it comes down to what’s judged at the pearly gates, it is just the same as having premarital sex, so… Some (I have to keep saying some because I know it is not all, but still a great amount) religious people are by far the most judgmental people and I simply cannot.
They get upset when they feel like homosexuals are “forcing” their sexuality upon them. Here’s the thing sis, don’t you think perhaps we feel the same way. I can’t go anywhere without seeing straight couples holding hands, kissing, with their kids and just being human and no one looks at them twice. However, if I go out with my girlfriend people may do double takes, stare at her, frown or any combination of rude and ignorant gestures. I want to go out and enjoy my time with my love just as anyone else. So why people have reactions is beyond me. There is NOTHING wrong with receiving and reciprocating love. Love is a wonderful thing. And you should accept it because it is a gift. And if the love gifted to me is from someone of the same sex then so be it because guess what girl it’s a lot more than what you are receiving from your three baby daddies and bae.
When it really get’s to the bottom of all of this, it just is NOT anyones business. And the sooner people start minding their business and stop concerning themselves with things that do not concern them the world would be a better place.
Gay marriage is not a concern to you if you are not gay, if you are married, if you aren’t looking to be married, if you are not in a relationship or looking to be in a relationship with someone who is of the same sex. What this means is gay marriage doesn’t concern you and you shouldn’t be so moved or fearful of something you do not have to be apart of or deal with. Just as your pregnancy has nothing to do with me. How would people who are pro-choice feel if a host of pro-life people had to vote on a law that doesn’t concern them and they got stuck with having to have unwanted babies. It’s sort of like that. Why would people who don’t have to get married to the same sex have to vote if same sex couples should get married. Do you see the injustice here?
I just want people to get over themselves because there is nothing to fear. I like women, yes. But I like gay women. Women are nice to look at but approach a woman who does not like women is just pointless because I just don’t have that type of time or energy to waste, mmmkay?!
So, just stop with that homophobic talk because girl it’s 2014 and you should just hang that right on up there with that women in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant and black women are on the bottom of the power chain type talk because sis, I am just not here for that!