I’m not sure who’s thing this is…gay, straight, secure, insecure or whatever but sometimes this seems to be a great debate. What is the problem with remaining friends with your ex? One of my friends has told me she would not be comfortable with her fiancé (man–just for informational purpose) remaining friends with past girlfriends. I know some women (lesbians — background information, again) who are and who aren’t comfortable with their partners remaining friends with their exes.
I’m friends, or at least cordial, with most of my exes. We don’t hang out but we may chat every now and again. I don’t see this as a problem, especially if you had an amicable breakup. I’m just seeing the huge disconnect on why it’s a problem. I know myself and if I felt that having a friendship with any of my exes would cause any issues in my relationship then I wouldn’t put myself in that position but I think it comes down to trust. Anyone could be a threat, not just an ex. This is almost like the argument of men and women can’t just be friends. Which I disagree with. So, I’m curious, what are your thoughts,
1. Are you ok with your partner/spouse being friends with an ex? If your answer is no, why?
2. Do you believe women and men or doms and fems can just be friends ? If your answer is no , why ?